October 01, 2018 19:38
||I'm sorry. Maybe I totally misunderstand this website. But what exactly is the point in tying someone that manages to escape that quickly? To me this is just ridiculous. Why do it, why tie someone up in the way so that she is able to get rid of it basically in 10 seconds? What is the REASON for tying someone up? Isn't it just the opposite of what we are seeing here in almost every video? Very rarely a bondage truly works. In my opinion the reason should be because we seek that someon is NOT able to escape. I understand the fun of TRYING to escape, in rare instances it might even work. But either the riggers are very very bad or they don't take the bondage seriously if the easy escapes happen in almost every situation.
I think maybe it is a fundamental misunderstanding of the entire concept of BDSM. I never understand why people talk about "comfort" when it comes to BDSM. Isn't the whole reason behind BDSM exactly that? To be in pain, to be helpless, to be uncomfortable? What's the point in a gag if you don't really tighten it?
I mean, I understand and completely agree with the fact that BDSM always has to be consensual, you need a safe word and that it needs to be in a trusted and controlled environment. But noneless, in the end BDSM is all about pain and discomfort, it is the basic foundation as to WHY people are sexually into it, on both the dom and the sub level. I think usually it is the pain and discomfort that sexually arouses people. Just as bondage is supposed to be arousing because of NOT escaping and helpless struggling. Not because it is easy to manage. So, the main point is: I think most of the videos here completely misinterpret the whole concept of bondage.